The GooneyBirds

2011-09-26T13:57:00.000-07:00

At the end of August we headed west to Lake Michigan. It was an awesome little family trip. Here we are on the pier in South Haven.

A visit to South Haven isn't complete without a trip to the famous lighthouse. So we did that first!

Ari loved the sand.

Daddy and the boy.

Fun in the sun and sand.

We believe this is Sephi's head. The waves were pretty wild that day.

Walk on the beach at sunset. Gid loved the rocks.

Happy little bedbugs.

What an awesome day!

Happier than ever!

The Hobby That is Taking Over Our Life

2011-09-25T16:28:00.000-07:00

We learned about aquaponics from an in-flight magazine in April of 2010. Unemployment stopped us from experimenting with the newfound technology right away, but we did alot of reading and surfing to learn all we could. In June this year, within two weeks of moving into our new home we purchased our first IBC tanks. Then we went on vacation. Returning from our trip back to Mo. with the flu, didn't stop us from setting up our system right away.
A month later we had fish, bacteria growing happily, nitrites becoming nitrates and a system waiting for its first plants! So exciting!
Our plants were grown for us by Brendan Bradley, a new friend with a head full of knowledge about plants and permaculture. In went the tomatoes, happily soaking up the red and blue spectrum from 8 T5 grow bulbs.
This is where the hobby gets out of control...
Bry and I went to Florida! If you think that a weekend at Disney World was the plan, or something romantic was in the air you would be wrong. (well romance was at least thought of ;)

We attended the first annual Aquaponics Association Conference! It WAS AWESOME.
Friday we visited two aquaponic farms. One a research farm and another a full blown commercial farm built in a greenhouse on top of a three story building. Totally cool.
Saturday we spent in classes taught by the "experts". The cool thing is that the experts have only been doing this for three to four years! We learned alot!
In fact, we learned so much we have to take apart our system and start over! Oh darn!
We also spent some fun time meeting people and at the book signing for Sylvia Bernsteins new book, Aquaponic Gardening. Got our copy!!

We came home really wanting to involve the kids in our crazy new hobby. What better way to do that than to make it part of the school day! So, I found the Disney PlanetChallenge to help in this endeavor. The kids and I will be creating a basement system for your schoolroom and learn all the science behind how and why aquaponics works! The hook for the kids is the all expense paid trip to Disney World if we win the challenge! (I wouldn't mind heading back to Florida for a more relaxing vacation too!)

Bryan stayed up all night fixing our system last night, so we wouldn't lose our plants or fish. We mainly had to fix the filtering. Here is our system before

and here it is now, awaiting some more gravel and our little lettuce and chard plants.

We cut two 55 gallon barrels in half to create 4 grow beds. This is a use what you have system. Bryan is enjoying the challenge of the unique plumbing. These tomatoes have been in the system for about a month. When we got them they were 3 or 4 inches tall.

So life has been busy.

2011-08-16T06:56:00.000-07:00

I am sure you will all forgive me for not posting when you hear about our schedule the last couple of months.
June 7 close on house 4pm. Move in by 8pm
June 8 First camp activity I was in charge of....I missed it. Migraine.
The next few weeks were filled with trying to make the internet happen, get unpacked as much as possible, taking kids to the library, enjoying hiking adventures (I only got lost once, Jake knew the way), getting ready for our trip to MO, and thrift store shopping.
June 15 5 mile Hike with the Young Women. So fun. I need more excersize!
June 18 Went to somewhere past Battle Creek to pick up some IBC tanks for our aquaponics system. Fun trip!
June 20th-? Trying to get the basement painted.
June 27 Bry leaves for a business trip. I am left to prepare 8 children for a big trip alone!
June 30-head for Peoria, IL to pick up Bryan on our way to Nauvoo, IL, got stuck in construction traffic because I didn't understand my GPS. We made it anyway.
July 1st Nauvoo IL Yay Keenan and Suzanne!
July 2nd on to Missouri for more family and friends
July 4th Celebrate Independence day at Sarah and Kevin's
July 5-6 Kids spend the day puking . By evening I am sick too.
July 6th-Bryan has had enough...he takes us home. No one throws up on the way. A miracle!
July 7-9 Working on our aquaponics system-even though we feel crummy. I think this is when I finally finished the basement painting.
July 11-16 Four girls participate in the community production of The Magic Tinderbox. Daily rehearsals, trips to the thrift store for costume parts and lots of sewing. We lived for a week with Queen Featherbrain, the Duchess of Vainglorious, and two lowly (but very cute) servants. I couldn't find the camera for the performance!! Will contact other parents for pics.
July 18th Countdown to Girls Camp begins! But first...
July 20-23 Jacob and Jolie head off to Nauvoo for Youth Conference. We tried to get all the dishes done without help from Jo
July 21-Gid the Kid turns 6. We had planned to have a campout and cook food over a fire. Alas it was over 100 degrees! So I bought a sprinkler and popsicles and that made the birthday boy happy.
July 22-Spend 6 hours cleaning and organizing the garage. Moving lots of boxes into the places they will actually go and trying not to get overwhelmed. I can park in the garage by the end. It was worth it!
July 23-found awesome school desks and the find of the year...a 9 ft Stainless steel, 3 tub sink for $50 at a School asset sale!!
July 25-31 Lots of camp prep. Brain not on the planet. Did get a chance to start painting a bookshelf though. Also trying to ween the baby. She is NOT a baby anymore!
July 26 Spent the day at Silver Lake with kids. Very needed break!
July 30 Jake heads to Scout Camp/High Adventure
Aug 2 Send my big girls off to camp! I join them the next evening.
Aug 3-6 Camp in Hiram OH! It was awesome. We have the best girls!
Aug 8 No obligations in sight. Phew! Ack! Have to start thinking about the new school year!
Aug 11 Jacob's first day of Commando Krav Maga. Not sure how I feel about that. But he is happy.
Aug 13 Bry and 4 kids head to the lake with a friend for a glorious morning of canoeing and fishing. Four others and myself head into town for a morning of garage sales and window shopping. Wonderful day! LOVE where we live. That night I drove some youth to the Stake center for a dance. Then I was dragged on the traditional after dance trip to Wendy's (we ended up at McD's). Got everyone home by midnight! We have such good youth in our ward. Love being with them! (including mine of course)

And there had many things transpired which, in the eyes of some, would be great and marvelous; nevertheless, they cannot all be written in this post; yea, this post cannot contain even a hundredth part of what was done among so many people in the space of two and half months!

I will post some pics again soon!

Been too long....

2011-08-10T20:16:00.000-07:00

LIfe has been so full lately that I occasionally feel guilty about not blogging but just haven't had the time.

We are in our house....

This is the awesome view of our front yard out my bedroom window. Whenever I look out I can't believe I get to be somewhere so beautiful.

Here are a few pics from the last few months.

We have gone hiking several times. So many awesome trails to choose from. We all love it. Jake has also gone biking on the trails with the scouts.

Gid the kids turned 6 years old in July! Wow! He spends his days on his bigger bike...mostly crashing.

I rarely get to be in the pictures! This one is taken courtesy of Emilie. These two are my crazies. Love 'em!

This pic is dedicated to my Mom. We are playing the penny game. If you guess which hand Mom is holding the penny in you get to move up one step. First one to the top wins! Not sure if this was a desperate Mom invention or someone else's genius but it sure comes in handy in a house full of unpacked boxes. (In case you were wondering, the dress up box had just been found.)

Stay tuned for some more catching up...including but not limited to: Joseph's birthday, Aliyah's birthday, Jakes birthday, moving into the house, the park, the library, the Magic tinderbox, Girl's camp, summertime in Michigan, aquaponics in the shop. (Do you think I will really get to all that?)

I will try!

A house!

2011-05-04T09:18:00.000-07:00

This has been such a long ordeal I am not sure whether to woot or not! We made another offer on the original house after the sellers lowered their price again. We also have different financing options now that makes the septic system a problem we can deal with. So excited they accepted our offer on Monday!
Moving forward with hope. We celebrated Monday night with an ice cream cone at Zou Zou's in downtown Chelsea. It was a great place and yummy!
When we drove by the house we saw families of geese and ducks enjoying our ponds. Can't wait to be there!!

Part II: The Michigan Saga

2011-03-28T08:11:00.000-07:00

To summarize: We were welcomed into the home of the most perfect couple on earth at the end of February. They have already served two missions. I think they have decided that we are their third!

At the time we still had hope that the search for our own home would be short. Over that last month we have gone from hope to near dispair multiple times. Every time we found a house that would work or at one point a home that we thought was amazingly perfect. Someone else was a step ahead and had already made an offer.
Did the Lord want us to live in someone else's home forever!!?

We have had a lovely month though if you don't count the house hunt.

Sarah's birthday compelled cheerfulness and a trip to the Ann Arbor Hands-On Museum. The kids had a blast. I, of course, forgot the camera.

Our three oldest participated in the Stake roadshow. Our ward performed a praiseworthy story of Snow White and the Seven Dwarves. Jolie was a singing tree, Aliyah a dwarf named Hope, and Jake, a dwarf called Honesty.

Bryan and I have gone on a few dates into Ann Arbor. We tried to go to a vegitarian restaurant but were disuaded from that scrumptious idea when we discovered that Ann Arbor parking garages were not intended to house 12 passenger vans. We plan to return with friends in a smaller car!

He and I both recieved callings in the ward. He as the 1st counselor in the Sunday School (somewhere he hasn't served before) and as the teacher for the 14/15 yr old class. I was asked to head up the Girls Camp committee this year. I am really excited as we go camp on the Johnson Farm near Kirtland Ohio!

The younger kids and I visited one of the parks in the area to learn about making maple syrup. We helped get sap from a tree and watched as it boiled down over a hot wood stove. We are all looking forward to having a maple tree of our own to make some maple syrup next year!

Our overworked and flabbergasted realtor has been a genuine friend. She invited us to visit her at home and play in her big building that is the perfect place for kids to unwind during the cold winter months. It houses a pool table, trampoline, ping pong table, and riding toys. We've enjoyed two visits to this haven of excitement.

One day on the way home from there we took a road we had not travelled before. As we were almost home Bryan spied a long unused driveway winding up to a home on the top of a wooded hill. Upon realizing the home was empty we turned around and went to check it out.

It seemed to be an abandoned brand new house. Peeking in windows of abandoned houses has become quite a talent for us. This time the house was on a hill. I actually had to lift Bry up to see in one of the windows. Just a funny memory. Glad I didn't have the camera.

To make a long story short we got home snooped around online and found the owner of the house, gave our realtor all the info. It took some doing but we found that the home had been only partially forclosed on. We made an offer to the bank and hope to hear today!!!!!

The house is on 20 acres. Much of it is wooded and the rest is marshy. There is a large pond where we discovered some mallards nesting. It is the perfect spot for maple syrup making and our very outdoorsy children.

I am hoping, hoping this is the Lord's plan......

The Big Move....or everything that has happened so far

2011-03-08T14:57:00.000-08:00

Update: Where to start.....we are in Michigan.
We thought, when Bryan accepted this job that the troubles were over. We could now breathe deeply and relax a little. So little did we know.
Bryan started work for a company in Michigan in December. A huge blessing. We began to dream of moving, a new house(not a remodel), new places, new experiences. At the end of December he and I and Aria spent six stressful days house hunting. When on the last day at the last moment we thought we found one we went back to Missouri rejoicing.
Bryan's job then became extremely demanding and he was travelling away more than he was home, w
while I and the eight children tried to prepare for the big move. I was very grateful that we didn't have to pack. We spent our days purging the house of everything we did not want supercontientious movers to stuff in boxes to then be found cluttering our new house.
Shortly after our return to Missouri we learned that we would not be getting the house we wanted, so we began looking for a rental. Bryan discovered one that would work and we were again relieved that we would have a home to go to. Then we learned that we WERE getting the house we wanted and we were very excited.
All through these experiences we were having a lot of trouble with the relocation company which was supposed to make this move as smooth as possible, yet did nothing but mess things up.
We planned our move for the middle of February. Shortly after scheduling the movers we learned that the relocation company had again messed things up and we would not be closing on the house when we originally planned. We left Missouri anyway with the help of several kind friends who cleaned the house and one especially amazing friend who came back the next day to mop and finish up for us.
We got to Michigan on the 17th of February. We lived in a hotel for a week and a half.
Our family has had the good fortune of falling into the boundaries of an especially amazing and service oriented ward. We have been fed, housed, hugged, worried over, fasted for, smiled at, and welcomed compeletely.
The home we thought we were buying turned out to need some major work. At that point we discovered that the rental we had as backup was not adequate for our needs and when we thought we had miraculously found the ultimate rental of our dreams we were reminded of the reason we do not rent....the number 8 that is attached to the word children.
To be continued.....

Time4Learning is a hit!!!

2011-03-05T14:29:00.000-08:00

Several months ago I was introduced to Time4Learning by a friend who had just began homeschooling. I logged on and watched a demo and was not impressed enough to let go of all my hard work of pulling together curriculum from multiple sources for multiple children. I thought that the quality of the program was not what I was looking for.
Then life changed....we had an eighth child...we had two kids start high school...we began a large move 600 miles from our home, family, friends, and home school co-op. Overwhelm set in. Time4Learning was seeming like a very good idea. I jumped at the chance to try it out for a month in exchange for this review.

I was delighted that I could sign up 4 children for the first month. We began in the 6th, 3rd, 2nd, and 1st grade. Each of the children used the feature that allows you to do work in the grade ahead or below the chosen grade. Our second grade child is really a third grader who has some trouble with reading. It was a relief to her to do the language arts curriculum from 2nd grade as it was easier for her to read. I was pleasantly surprised that the phonics lessons really helped her to improve her reading also.
Our first grader was just happy with all of it. She says she especially liked doing the science. Our third grader is a fourth grade student with a low desire to read. He loved all of the Time4Learning subjects and I look forward to convincing him that he is capable of performing at grade level. Our oldest child in Time4Learning was willing to do all the subjects because it was on the computer. In contrast, my most convincing teaching from other sources could not persuade her to enjoy reading about many of the subjects that were covered in this curriculum.
There is a lovely feature included in the curriculum where the student earns a certain amount of computer game time in the Playground after completing their schoolwork. I especially liked this because I didn't have to worry about the kids accidently going to a site that was not safe. For the first week I didn't even tell the kids this feature existed. Then, on the day they were all dancing around telling a friend how fun school was, I decided I was convinced too that Time4Learning was a keeper.
My initial opinion that the quality of the curriculum was not what I would like was based on my viewing of a demo. The demo was animated and loud. I didn't want the kids learning from cartoons. On using the curriculum I was pleased with the levels for 3rd grade and up. There was a lot of reading and actual photographs of the people and places the kids were learning about. There were also internet links to sites with more information. The lower grades have a lot of animation but it kept the kids attention and they did remember what they were learning. Sometimes it was hard for them to understand the animated characters, but I think it would be solved if we got headphones.
I really liked the record keeping features. It made it really easy for me to keep track of each child. I could tell where they needed to review and when the level they were working on was too easy.
There are some features we haven't used such as the word processing for writing and journaling as the kids need some typing instruction first. But we are looking forward to using this curriculum. I may even enroll my Kindergartner also.
I had thought I might wait to begin this curriculum until after our move but I am so glad I didn't wait. It was great to be able to pack up the laptop for our move and not have to lug around boxes of books to keep everyone busy. It was especially great to have something worthwhile for them to do while we were stuck in a hotel room for hours on end as we were house hunting!
Time4Learning has freed up my time to do things with the kids that are more fun for me. When I know the basics are covered we can read stories together and take on bigger projects that I have been too overwhelmed in the past to do with them. I hope time for learning can continue to be the blessing it has been so far!
(the opinion expressed in this review is entirely my own, the content was not written by Time4Learning, but I have been compensated)

Stay Tuned for our family review of Time4Learning

2011-02-02T09:43:00.000-08:00

I've been invited to try Time4Learning for one month in exchange for a candid review. My opinion will be entirely my own, so be sure to come back and read about my experience. Time4Learning can be used as an online homeschooling curriculum, afterschool tutorial or a summer skill builder. Find out how to write your own curriculum review for Time4Learning.

I have been looking into using Time4Learning for quite a while for several of the kids and this gives me the perfect opportunity to see how we like it. Wish us luck!

Giveaways!

2011-01-18T12:00:00.000-08:00

I should be posting about Bryan's new job or how cute my kids are or even my new house but I am posting to let you know about a Silhouette giveaway on two blogs I follow! Because I really want a Silhouette!!
Shabbychiccottage is so cool! and Beneath my heart is lovely!
If I win this Silhouette, I plan to make the awesomest things for my new house.

Science Experiment?

2010-12-06T12:38:00.000-08:00

Do you ever wonder if you live in a petri dish?
    Sometimes if seems the choices of our lives are watched over by the guy on the other end of the giant microscope. We wander about acting and unfortunately being acted upon, most of the time having no real understanding of the far reaching effects of our daily decisions. The all seeing eye above us is carefully recording our every move, occasionally shaking the dish we call life to create a new kaleidoscope of choices and directions to appear in front of us. Out of the immense number of possible outcomes He somehow manages to guide our actions in the direction that lead to the best possible results. The only ones in the dark in this double blind study are us.
   In the last two years we have spent our every waking moment (and admittedly, many sleeping ones) trying to discover the path we should take to create our future. Trying to see the long term consequences of our desires. Struggling to embark on a new story in the Choose Your Own Adventure that is our life. We've taken seminars, soul searched, read countless books, job-hunted, interviewed, created small business plans, flown to new places, hoped, dreamed, prayed.
   I have decided that our Father is so full of compassion he lets us dream our dreams because they make us happy. He watches, gently persuading us with new ideas, as what we thought would be the best thing ever, slowly or suddenly dissipates into just and only a dream.
    Amazingly, none of this makes Him impatient to be moving on as it does us. He is content to watch and wait as we figure out a few things on our own. He never despairs that our lives are not going "according to plan". He never worries that we'll never see better days. He sees the end from the beginning.
    And so he teaches us patience, compassion, gentleness and reaches down to pull us out of the fiery furnace because thankfully, he knows our hearts.

Awesome Giveaway!

2010-11-24T07:22:00.000-08:00

My sister, the amazing design whiz at Forever and a Day, introduced me to Shanty2Chic and I am already in love with the ideas they share. Check it out and their amazing giveaway of a Silhouette Electronic cutting tool! Ideas of Christmas gifts are already floating in my head!

Grand Finale!

2010-11-23T06:44:00.000-08:00

Friday was the grand finale of our first semester of LEAD Homeschool Fellowship. It was 10 great weeks of learning for all the kids. Our Co-op was attended by over 30 families with 117 kids!
Gid loved this experience in a group school setting. He learned songs, did art, played and just enjoyed himself. Em and Rose both loved P.E., Natural Science, and an art class taught by Aunt Sarah. Joseph did all the same classes with his own age group and loved his art class with me!

Aliyah our family artist in residence had two art classes with Mom, 3-D Art and Meet the Masters. She says her favorite art medium is wire. Though she still really enjoys clay sculpture. Leonardo Da Vinci continues to be her inspiration. Her third class was P.E.

Jolie was in her element this semester in her Choir, Drama, and Human Video classes. (Human Video is a class where they choreographed a Christian song for a music video). The final drama performance was a one act play called, "Reading, Writing, and Red Riding Hood". Her musical talents have improved wonderfully through her participation in Choir.

Jacob learned a lot in Personal Finance, Dissection, and JROTC. He spoke of his joy at dissecting eye balls and his lamentation at leaving a portion of his cow eyeball in the freezer one week. His favorite class by far was of course, JROTC. Where he learned some military history, drills and other army stuff. The retired Sergeant who ran the program has gone above and beyond the call of duty with this class. He has volunteered his time at co-op and each Thursday evening for drill instruction. He helped the kids get sponsorship through the American Legion to purchase their uniforms. And he made it possible for them to carry the colors at the head of the annual Christmas Parade this past Saturday. Jake has had the time of his life!

I had a great time teaching classes this semester too. I chose to do art because that is one subject that falls by the wayside in homeschool a lot of the time as Moms have visions too often of the mess it makes and avoid it at all costs. I wanted to make sure Aliyah got the opportunity to do what she loves.

I forgot in all this altruistic thinking that I have a 7-9 month old teething, mommy needing, crawling baby! Luckily, my classroom was next door to the nursery and I had awesome assistants who picked up the slack when I had to go rescue the perfectly patient and wonderful Moms who manned the baby room.

All in all, co-op this fall was a huge success and a wonderful supplement to our schooling at home.

Signs in the Heavens...

2010-11-09T10:57:00.000-08:00

Rushing to get the kids to seminary I couldn't help but notice the shining morning star in the east. The horizon was just beginning to take on the hazy colors of sunrise while Venus shone brightly heralding the approaching day.
I was reminded of the Savior who declared Himself the be "the bright and morning star". The Jews of that time would have understood Him perfectly. Venus has a cycle of life that exactly emulates the life of the Lord. Venus is an evening star dim in the west but grows brighter and brighter each day. Then just when it is about to reach it's brightest point, Venus plunges into the blackness of night and is not seen for several days. Finally, we see her rising in the east in full brightness announcing the approaching sun as the bright and morning star.
I firmly believe that the 'heavens declare the glory of God'. The signs in the heavens are exactly calculated to testify of Christ. So much has been lost in this modern world of ours. We can receive great comfort from understanding the workings of the heavens the Creator placed above us.
Today I was reminded that our adversities and our afflictions shall be but a small moment and shall be for our good, and then if we endure them well we will be exalted on high.
Get up early tomorrow and look to the southeast for a reminder of your own.

Homeschool Buyers Co-op free to join!

2010-11-04T06:25:00.000-07:00

The Homeschool Buyer Co-op is a free homeschooling organization for both new and veteran homeschoolers. Co-op membership is free and confidential, and entitles homeschooling families to discounts from over a hundred educational suppliers. They also sponsor "Group Buys" for curriculum packages that save homerschooling families lots of money. On the site you'll find lots of free information, such as databases of free curriculum, field trips, and educational contests and scholarships. Highly recommended. Click here for more information.
We got our math curriculum this year through the co-op and got a 40% discount!

Man's Best Friend

2010-08-06T08:10:00.000-07:00

Hi I made another webquest for you! It is about dogs. So came with me on a quest for dogs!

My favorite dog is the German Shepherd. Go here to learn about the German Shepherd.

Go here to make a list of dog types. Then pick one dog breed from every group and share two amazing facts about each dog breed.

Now that you have found your favorite dog breed, go to the Humane Society to learn to care for him. After reading tip 10, write three fun things you want to do with your new dog.
Just for fun draw a picture of you and your dog or go here to color a picture.

I hope you had fun questing for dogs. Leave a comment about your favorite dog.

Aliyah

Wilderness Survival Webquest 1

2010-08-03T00:00:00.000-07:00

Welcome to Wilderness Survival Webquest 1
With this quest you will be embarking on a journey of discovery. Can you prepare for wilderness survival?
What are the first things you need to know to be able to survive if you are lost in the woods?

Go here to learn what equipment is most important if you get lost in the wilderness. While you are there make a quick list of supplies to have in your personal survival kit.

Water is the most essential ingredient in your survival! How do you make sure your water is safe to use? Follow the instructions on this site for using chlorine bleach to purify water.

Next, shelter is very important. Try a fallen tree shelter or a brush shelter. Which one would you rather use? Why?

After building that shelter I bet you are really hungry, but what is safe to eat in a survival situation? Go here for the menu.

Did you catch a fish with your newfound survival techniques? Go here to learn to build a fire without matches!

After this webquest you should be prepared in case of any emergency! I would love to hear about what you are doing to be ready!

Till next time,
Jake

Aliyah loves WebQuests!!

2010-08-02T10:05:00.000-07:00

Hi everybody, I am learning to create webquests. Webquests are short research projects done online. I will start by creating one for you. My favorite thing to learn about is HORSES! Join me in a webquest for Horses!
In this webquest you are going to learn some exciting facts about the beautiful Arabian horse breed. Do you know how many breeds there are? You will discover your favorite breeds and write a short essay comparing them. Next, discover how you can care for a horse, what basic equipment you will need, and the best trails for riding near you!

There are a lot of horse breeds. My favorite is the Arabian. Go here to learn where the Arabian comes from and what the breed is best for.

Now, choose two favorite horse breeds here. Write a short essay telling how they are similar and how they are different.

Look here to learn how to care for your horse. Make a list of things you need to learn to do.

Do you want to know what equipment you need? Go here. Just for fun, draw a picture of you on your horse ready for a trail ride. Or go here to print a picture to color.

Now that you have a horse and you know how to care for him, find out where you can go on a trail ride near you!!

Have a great time learning about horses and don't forget to tell me all about it!!

Aliyah

Embarking on my own Adventure!

2010-07-31T16:30:00.000-07:00

This last year has been such a strange one. I have been thinking so much over the last several months about helping Bryan to find and pursue his goals for his life and work that it has finally started seeping in that perhaps it is time for me to pursue mine.
I think at times, perhaps especially for Mom's who truly see the vast importance of Motherhood, guilt for taking time to do what you love overcomes your deepest desires.
I am learning that I can do what I love and still be everything my children need me to be. In fact, I am learning that if I put off doing what I love, I am more likely to put my children farther from my heart as well.
So I have discovered a way to follow my heart and help my family.
Step 1. I have become an affiliate for Sitesell. A company that helps you convert your passions, knowledge, and unique purpose into a successful and profitable e-business.
Step 2. I am exploring my hobbies, dreams and deepest desires to discover the best way I can create value for the world.
Step 3. With the help of SiteBuildIt! I will begin an e-business of my own to:
             a. fulfill a portion of my unique purpose in mortality
             b. supplement our family income
             c. have fun and be an example of faith to my children

Is it time to pursue your dreams?

Sigh...

2010-07-14T18:34:00.000-07:00

It is probably not the best day to post....but it has been too long.

The past has been mostly boring with a few bright spots, ie. gorgeous spring weather, hostas in my front garden, lots of extended family gatherings, a lovely Independence day, and Bryan's brother Kevin coming to visit. Last weekend we spent in Nauvoo. It was Aliyah's first temple trip! Lovely.
The present is somewhat discouraging so....

I will tell you about the future.

Jake heads to Youth Conference tomorrow. He is going to have a great time.
Then Monday he leaves again for Scout camp. He has promised to focus on merit badges needed for his Eagle. Yay! What a good boy!

While he is gone the rest of us will spend our days in the pool in the back yard. Today was over 110 degrees!!

My sister, Sis, is coming to visit. Extra yay!!!

Gideon's birthday is coming next week and I just realized the Jake will miss it!

I am learning Biblical Hebrew. This is the one bright bright thing in my present so I thought I would share.
Of course my little ones are bright and wonderful too, especially Aria, who keeps getting more adorably fun by the day.

What's been going on!?

2010-05-22T15:57:00.000-07:00

April-
General Conference was lovely.

My cousin Michelle's husband, Michael was killed suddenly, so Bryan, Sasha and Ari went to Washington, to be with the family. (Grandpa, Jolayne, Laura, Michelle, and Gary)

( I have not been able to figure out how to position the pics properly. If I don't quit trying I will never get this posted!!)

We tried to sell our house.

It was a good thing we didn't sell it.

Alaska was happening....then it wasn't...then it was...finally it didn't.

Roller coasters have never been my thing. Does your life feel like one?

As Alaska was looking more and more unlikely, Bryan was offered another job HERE!

May- Four kids compete at the Cameron Crossroads International Karate Championships!!

Emi and Jake both earned trophies. Aliyah and Sarah did well in their events and had a great time too.

Emi placed FIRST in her age group in forms!!

Jake placed SECOND in sparring and THIRD in forms!! Way to go Jake!!! This picture is Jake and his friends preparing for a self-defense routine.

Sarah and Aliyah at their events. It was hard to get good pics of all of them. There was so much going on at once! Next year we will be prepared with at least two cameras!

Bryan is officially employed....almost! He will start in June working locally for a publishing company.

We are excited to be staying here where winter may get rather cold but at least is of a normal length!

The Kansas City Temple Groundbreaking was May 8th! What a blessing to have been here for it!

I am busy recreating the LEAD Home School Cooperative for a bigger and better than ever new fall semester. We have found a new home for our co-op where we can expand our membership for a long time!! So excited!

A few more pics from the last couple of months

First picnic of the spring Apr. 27th

And last but not least....

Karate Kids!

2010-03-30T09:18:00.000-07:00

Last night the kids all showed their mettle in the Crossroads Breakathon! What a blast!

Next Event: May 1st, Crossroads International Karate Championships! Stay tuned for details!!

Babies are sooo fun!!

2010-02-23T21:28:00.000-08:00

I was going to write something but these are already worth more than 9,000 words! Oh, she is so precious!

Alaska! To Go or Not to Go....

2010-02-22T13:38:00.000-08:00

As you may have heard we are looking into the totally crazy idea of moving to Alaska. It's a long story.

Suffice it to say that there is opportunity for our family up there that is not presenting itself here and we are bravely ready to grasp the adventure while it's available.

Here are some pics of the Kenai Peninsula where we would be relocating.

Bryan is flying up there tomorrow to spend the week ironing our business plans.

Pray for him please, so that he can have the wisdom to make the decisions he needs to make.

Time to Move On

2010-02-17T11:42:00.000-08:00

It seems that we thrive on adventure! It has become neccessary to embark on a new one and in so doing we need to get our house sold.
We have had such a good time in this home and it has become nearly perfect as we have worked on remodeling it the last two years!

Pass the word along to anyone you know who may be interested in 10 acres in rural Missouri with several barns, and a 3900 sq ft.6 bed/3+ bath house.
Rooms include: Amazing kitchen 16x19, Dining room 12x20, Sun room 12x 15, Pantry 5x7, Living room 14x20, laundry room with sink 10x10, 14x14 bedroom, 10x12 bedroom, 10x12 bedroom, basement has Family room and second kitchen, full bath with washer/dryer hookups, and 12x14 bedroom with walk in closet. Attached to the house below the basement is a large dry cellar for storage.

Master suite on second level is partially remodeled. 17x 35 with 1/2 bath, walk in closet, 9x12 office/sitting room.
The house has a gas furnace and a woodburning furnace. Both heat the house sufficiently alone but can be run simultaneously.
We have a beautiful view of the surrounding hills, lots of room for animals and equipment, and the best neighbors anyone could ask for.

I can't find more pics at the moment but will take new ones soon as so much has changed just in the last several months.
Stay tuned for details of the forthcoming Grove family adventure!

Aria Eliana Grove has arrived!

2010-02-10T18:45:00.000-08:00

Aria Eliana Grove

February 9, 2010

5:46 AM

9lbs. 10oz.

21 inches

Aria's birth was amazing. I am so glad we chose to have her at home. It was everything I had been praying for. Labor was short and bearable, my most favorite people were attending; Bryan, my mom, and my best friend and midwife-to-be, Dee. Aria's first cries woke Joseph, our early riser, so the kids came to see her almost as soon as she came into the world. It was lovely.

Aria is so fat I haven't been able to get many pics of her with her eyes open(expends too much of her energy I guess). She as long dark brown almost black hair. I can't wait to put bows in it.

Aria did not get the memo that she is the eighth child and seems to have an aversion to being left alone for longer than 3 minutes. But she is so adorable and soft and cuddly that I think the rest of us won't have a problem giving in to her whims. Hopefully, she won't become completely spoiled but I can't offer any garauntees.

Gideon reports that he knew it was a girl all along and he is very glad to be a big brother. Everyone is vying for the coveted position of chief baby holder. Gid, Emi and Sarah have been working hard on their reading so that they can read Aria stories.

It looks like we are really entering a new phase of life. I am excited about what the future will bring, especially when the Lord has such wonderful blessings waiting in the wings just for the asking.

Kansas City Missouri Temple

2010-02-03T10:37:00.000-08:00

Architectural Rendering of the new Temple from

http://kcldstemple.blogspot.com/

Isn't it beautiful!!

We're having a girl!

2010-01-05T17:20:00.000-08:00

Today an ultrasound confirmed our intuition! We are having a girl!

Here is our little one's profile. She has her hand covering her eyes and forhead as if to say,"Are we done yet?" All is well with her growth and my health and we look forward to this new little one entering the world around the 12th of February!

Happy Christmas

2009-12-30T07:01:00.000-08:00

Christmas at our house was especially joyous this year. We had the sure knowledge of the love of friends and family and a wonderful Christmas snow storm to boot! Flannel jammies for all the kids came in handy Christmas Eve night as the snow fell!

The next morning as the presents were opened we had lots of happy children who recieved just what they hoped for!

What could be better for a couple of little girls than the chance to make their very own cupcakes!

A Pogo Stick! The record so far? 284 consecutive jumps!

Anything that requires assembling is much appreciated by this future engineer.

No one needs an interpretation to see that this little boy is thrilled with his gift.

Survival gear was the rule of the day for this Outdoorsman! A new canteen was what he needed to complement his new paracord, knife, and flint.

A Dollhouse made by Daddy. All ready for the artisan of the family to paint, decorate, and furnish!

and the Grand Finale! Bryan got his long awaited Barbeque!!

But where is the Mom! Behind the new digital camera!!! Yay!

Goals

2009-11-18T09:28:00.000-08:00

I thought I would update you all on me.
This past month I attended a four week self-employment seminar through LDS Employment. It has been great. We were taught how to create and follow through with a business plan. (Thank you, Elder Carlson!)

I have discovered that I love the research involved in creating a plan. Hopefully I will get better at the implementation of the plan!

I began going to the class so that I could be more help to Bryan as he searches out options for his future, but I was immediately reminded of my own "dreams".

On a very back burner in my overstuffed homeschool mom brain is the dream of creating a private school which teaches the Leadership Education Model. For those of you unfamiliar with this philosophy check out George Wythe University or The Center for Social Leadership.

I feel strongly that in order for our nation to remain free and strong we must educate ourselves and our children to become statesmen. There is a real need to raise up the rising generation prepared to accomplish great things.

My heart goes out to families who do not have the opportunity or the confidence to homeschool, especially in areas like ours with very poorly performing public schools. So, I have put myself on a five year plan to prepare myself in my own education and in gathering others with the same vision who can help me in this important endeavor. (ok, I admit, I wouldn't mind having a break from my own kids!)

The first step of my plan is to finish the 5 pillars of Statesmanship training offered by George Wythe University. It is a program of reading the classics and receiving mentoring by others who have trod the path themselves. I have two more books to read for the first level. My goal is to finish the second level by this time next year.

I am currently debating with myself whether or not to pursue a Bachelors in Statesmanship from GWU also. I would love to do that and receive a minor in Political Science.
So now you know one of my "dreams" that I am trying to turn into a goal!

What are your goals? One year? Five years? Ten years?

My New Etsy Shop!

2009-11-02T07:04:00.000-08:00

Hey Everybody!
I have followed in the footsteps of my little sister, Selissa, owner of Forever and a Day, and opened my own Etsy shop! Happenchance!
Etsy is an awesome place to find unique handmade gifts for all ages and interests.
So far I have for sale, aprons, pillows, cell phone snugglies, and scrabble tile jewelry.
I will have a lot more jewelry soon!
Have fun on Etsy and tell all your friends!!

Autumn School Days

2009-10-02T07:17:00.000-07:00

Our house has been busy with little people schooling away to their hearts content. O.K. That is a lie. Most of them are not at all content about it. However, as this is a novel year, in that I have been feeling quite sane, we have been accomplishing alot!
Emilie can read several words and is excited to read her first short story today! Sarah is progressing amazingly in her reading and is suprising herself daily with the realization that she can decipher more words than she thought. Joseph is as always curious about the natural world and not so much about grammar, but he perserveres.
Aliyah is best at sneeking away to build some sort of sculpture instead of doing anything that involves writing. Unless she gets to write her tales of horses and cowboys which are nearing epic length. Jolie is fast approaching the designation of scholar. She is the one I can count on to finish all her work cheerfully even if I have to leave the house on errands. She especially loves the fascinating world of the human body this year, and has proven that she can draw by turning in several diagrams of the brain and skeletal system so far.

Jacob most enjoys hard, sweaty boy work. He has been learning to roof houses and build motorcycles. He would rather chop wood than do any school work but as he is in the 9th grade he must make room for a variety of learning. Right now he is focusing on math, ancient history, and logic. Focusing might be too strong a word.

I have made myself busy with the organization of a homeschool cooperative. That means I have, with the help of my awesome friend Dee, created an association of 16 families who meet monthly to provide academic and enrichment classes to a combined 60 children. This semester we offer three classes plus choir to each of 5 age groups.
I am teaching American Heritage to the middle/high schoolers. I love it! We expect to continue to grow in size over the next year. I feel blessed to be able to help provide this resource to all the families involved. I know Heavenly Father has really blessed us in this project.

I am sure you are wondering about Bryan and his career! So far no job has panned out. He feels that he is being drawn back into the self employment world. I am all for it! Some of our happiest family years were when he worked for himself. We get to see him more often! For now he has had continual work in construction. It is hard work and he comes home exhausted, but it pays the bills! The plan is to work on his ideas for businesses throught the winter and have some grand and wonderful something going in the Spring. Pray for him to be led to the right business for him.

Pairs

2009-08-03T18:50:00.001-07:00

My mother always told me to have my children in pairs. For safety reasons.

I think she meant sanity.

Haven't you noticed that two children together aren't exactly safe but they do keep each other busy which leads to a greater level of sanity on the part of the mother?

Jake and Jo have always been a pretty chummy pair.

Liyah is happy to team up with Jo on some occasions and with Sephi on others.

He in turn is equally content being silly with either Liyah or Rose.

Rose will entertain herself with anyone as long as she is in charge.

Emi is her usual victim.

And so our little Gid, who is not so little anymore, has found himself the odd man out.

We have decided to rectify the situation.....

Beginning February 17th, Gideon will have someone special to play with. His very own pair, partner, chum, slave, victim.
Baby #8!

P.S. It is unknown as to whether Gid's new playmate will be a girl or a boy. Gid is very determined to have a brother. Mom is not so sure. We'll keep you updated!

My awesome sister...

2009-07-29T18:17:00.000-07:00

is having a baby boy! She is the crocheting queen! Check out her blog. She has the most beautiful creations for babies and adults. Her new adult shrug is gorgeous! Sis, you are soooo talented.

Update (expect one monthly)

2009-07-15T12:35:00.000-07:00

Bryan did not get the job in Oregon. Wah. He immediately (after months of urging from his ever attentive, paranoid, grocery budgeting wife)went to LDS Employment Services down in Independence. His reluctance was well founded as they have been thoroughly unhelpful to professionals in the past. However, much has changed and Bryan has been getting excellent assistance from three very well informed and capable businessman missionaries on all aspects of the job search.
He has been very busy since, creating new resumes and job hunting. He has also gotten a couple construction jobs in the area to pay the bills.
The house we own in town is about to be SOLD. That hopefully will be completed by the end of the month.
All in All things are looking up and we are hopeful that he will have a job offer somewhere withing the next couple of months.
I am beginning to go into my annual crazy mode of preparing for the new school year. The feelings of panic are magnified by the fact that we have a HIGH SCHOOLER!!!!
I have had much much help with the planning through HSLDA.org and BYU independent Study. Our grand plan is to prepare our children for admittance into BYU. Even if they don't go, they have to be capable of going or they will be shot!
This year as Jacob begins 9th grade, Jolie will move to 8th, Aliyah is in 6th, Joseph in 4th, Sarah is a very excited 2nd grader, Emilie is in official kindergarten (though she has been doing Kindergarten work since her birthday) and Gideon is excited to be truly starting Pre-school!
So far I have decided to use Five in A Row as a basic curriculum for the three little ones. It is alot of fun. We will be gathering all kinds of things for the older kids but hope to follow the principles found in Thomas Jefferson Education by Oliver DeMille. EVERYONE SHOULD READ THIS BOOK!
Have a happy summer!

Update

2009-06-02T20:41:00.001-07:00

Wilford Woodruff, the great latter day historian, would be quite disappointed that I have failed to chronicle the interesting happenings of the last month and a half. But all I can do is strive to do better.
know I say this every post it seems but we have been working harder than we ever have on any house!

Since March we have completely finished the kitchen, all the tile, a new bathroom, changed a bedroom to a library, created a pantry,installed new interior doors,trim, flooring, caulking, painting. Bryan has spent several days in the roasting hot attic running new wiring and rearranging the old. We now have electricity almost everywhere! He and Jake spent two days drywalling a new bedroom and most of the new basement walls.

During all this the lawn mower broke three or four times. The main sink faucet in the kitchen began leaking at weird unexplainable intervals, and I just had to change the kitchen color from red to a much more lighthearted green.

The motivation for the non-stop painting and fixing and building and fixing and fixing is this, One of three things will happen in our future.

One, Bryan will get an amazing job here and will not be around again to fix my house and I will go crazy and be unable to adequately home school my children or cook good nutritious meals. (Bryan knows that if I don't have a pretty kitchen, he'll have to do the cooking.)

Two,Bryan will get an amazing job elsewhere and we will have to sell our house and it will need to be done for that to happen.

Three,(which is not really an option and we hope Heavenly Father has much more pleasant plans in store for us)There will be no job and we will lose everything we own including the beautiful house and we will all live together in a cardboard box (where Bryan will do the cooking.)

So far, it looks like option two might be the most likely. Bry has been interviewing with MasterBrand Cabinets in Grants Pass, Oregon. He will be flying out to have a final interview this Thursday. I will withhold comments on our opinions of living in that beautiful gorgeous heaven on earth to spare the feelings of our friends and family who might be reading this post in agony over the thought of our leaving them.
We probably will not know about the job until the end of next week.

We are living by faith that God has great things in store for our family. He has never let us down before.

Parental Rights Amendment

2009-04-18T08:01:00.000-07:00

This is a long post. Please read. Many of you will recieve it in your e-mail. It is of utmost importance.
Recently I had the opportunity to attend a lecture given by Dr. Michael Farris, co-founder of HSLDA and Parentalrights.org. Farris is the principle author of the proposed Parental Rights amendment now being submitted to the Congress.

SECTION 1
The liberty of parents to direct the upbringing and education of their children is a fundamental right.
SECTION 2
Neither the United States nor any State shall infringe upon this right without demonstrating that its governmental interest as applied to the person is of the highest order and not otherwise served.
SECTION 3
No treaty may be adopted nor shall any source of international law be employed to supersede, modify, interpret, or apply to the rights guaranteed by this article.

This amendment is a response to the growing support against and encroachment upon our national sovereignty and fundamental rights by international law and our increasingly legislative judiciary. The immediate threat is a treaty called the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child(UNCRC).

This treaty was signed by Janet Reno in 1995 but never ratified by the Senate. Article 6; Clause 2 of the United States Constitution states that any treaty ratified by the Senate would become the supreme law of the land. Therefore if ratified this treaty would supersede all state law on children and parents.

According to Dr. Farris, the UNCRC is based on two principles.
First, Government decides what is best in any matter.
Second, the child’s right to self determination is paramount unless the child’s wishes conflict with the government’s decision.

According to Parentalrights.org, among other freedoms, it would abolish a parent’s right to reasonably discipline their children. Good parents would no longer be entitled to the legal presumption that they act in the best interests of their children. Instead the governments would have the authority to overrule all parents on any decision concerning the child if the government believed it could make a better decision.
Children would have the legal right to choose their own religion. Parents would be permitted only to give advice.

Other freedom killing effects of this law:
America would be under a binding legal obligation to massively increase its federal spending on children’s programs. It has been interpreted to mean that it would be illegal for a nation to spend more on national defense than on children’s welfare.
The best interest of the child principle would give the government the ability to override every decision made by every parent if a government worker disagreed with the parent’s decision.
A child’s “right to be heard” would allow them to seek governmental review of every parental decision with which the child disagreed.
Allowing parents to opt their children out of sex education has been held to be out of compliance with the CRC. (“Why we need the parental rights amendment”, Parentalrights.org, 2009)

The UNCRC affects the very foundations of our liberties, especially religious liberty.
Is the family the fundamental unit of society or is the government the unit that controls the actions of the family? Dr. Farris pointed out in his lecture that we as a nation no longer understand the purpose of government.
There are some who believe that government exists to provide for our needs. This is socialism. There are others who understand that government exists to protect life, liberty, and Property. This is freedom.
It has been long acknowledged by leaders of our nation since the Founders that parental rights are a fundamental right; that directing the upbringing of children is a right only to be abridged in the case of proven abuse. However, since the year 2000 our parental rights have been seriously eroded by the Supreme Court when, according to Parentalrights.org, it held that any person could override a good parent’s decision about visitation rights by simply claiming that it would be best for children to allow the third-party to have visitation rights.
In this case there were six separate opinions and none reached a five-vote majority.
Justice Scalia held that parents have no constitutionally protected rights whatsoever.
Justice Thomas was the only Justice to clearly state that parental rights receive the same high legal standard of protection as other fundamental rights. (parentalrights.org)

Dr Farris explained that virtually all Federal decisions in 2008 ruled against parental rights as fundamental rights because of the decision of the Supreme Court in 2000.

At the same time America is poised to adopt the treaty this year. Our highest government officials support it and Senator Barbara Boxer has “promised’ that this treaty will be ratified during this term of Congress.

Under the UNCRC, you will no longer be allowed to teach your children that Jesus is the way the truth and the life. Only suggest it. You will not be allowed, by force of law, to insist your child accompany you to church. You will not be allowed, by force of law, to choose alternative schooling to the public schools. The treaty will supersede all state law on children and parents.
The UNCRC proposes a form of religious tolerance to religious liberty.
Religious liberty is when each individual has the unimpeded right to believe and practice his belief, unless he infringes on the right of another to do the same.
Religious tolerance, as those proposing the UNCRC understand it, substitutes for liberty a belief that all truth is the same or that there is no real truth at all so it is wrong(and the treaty makes it illegal) for one to believe in any truth or teach that there is truth even to ones own children.

If you believe in American sovereignty, that America should make the rules for America, you are against the UNCRC.
If you believe that all people have the unalienable right to religious liberty you are against the UNCRC.
If you believe that you as the parent are the one to make decisions in the best interest of your own children, you are against the UNCRC.
If you believe that the family is the fundamental unit of society, that government exists to protect the life, liberty and property of FAMILIES, that in fact the family grants powers to the government and has the right to dictate to it and not the other way around, you are against the UNCRC.

Some beliefs of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints to which I am a member pertain to this subject.

The 11th Article of Faith:
We claim the privilege of worshiping almighty God according to the dictates of our own conscience and allow all men this same privilege, let them worship how where or what they may.

According to the words of our First Presidency and the Quorum of the Twelve in The Family: A Proclamation to the World (1995)

“Husband and wife have a solemn responsibility to love and care for each other and for their children. ‘Children are an heritage of the Lord’ (Psalms 127:3). Parents have a sacred duty to rear their children in love and righteousness, to provide for their physical and spiritual needs, to teach them to love and serve one another, to observe the commandments of God and to be law-abiding citizens wherever they live. Husbands and wives—mothers and fathers—will be held accountable before God for the discharge of these obligations.
“The family is ordained of God. Marriage between man and woman is essential to His eternal plan. Children are entitled to birth within the bonds of matrimony, and to be reared by a father and a mother who honor marital vows with complete fidelity. Happiness in family life is most likely to be achieved when founded upon the teachings of the Lord Jesus Christ.”

The final line in the Proclamation on the Family is an admonition to the world from the First Presidency and the Quorum of the Twelve: “We call upon responsible citizens and officers of government everywhere to promote those measures designed to maintain and strengthen the family as the fundamental unit of society.”

I am determined to support Parentalrights.org in passing this amendment to the United States Constitution. In the words of Dr. Farris, “The time is short, the need is urgent!”
I recommend you to go to www.parentalrights.org to learn more and see how you can help in this critical fight for our fundamental liberties and the strengthening of families.

Come Listen To a Prophet's Voice!

2009-04-06T06:15:00.001-07:00

This weekend, with several sick children, our family spent the hours of Conference sitting together on our living room couch listening to the audio feed of the meetings.

As each new speaker began my children would ask me who it was so that they could keep thier notes. I was so grateful for my many years of listening to conference, as we have not often had the opportunity to actually go see the Prophets.

I love to recognize the voices of the prophets and apostles. Each one has a different quality in their voice yet each voice is filled with love and compassion. That is the feeling I have taken away from Conference this weekend.

That the Prophets and Apostles love us! That through them our Father is expressing His great love for us, His great desire to guide us, and help us.

As our family is struggling with unemployment the messages of Prophets, Seers and Revelators taught us the path we should take, helped us to reinvigorate our discouraged hearts, and reminded us of the bright future we have because of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

I thank the Lord for the voices of Living Prophets!

Does this make me a REAL blogger?

2009-03-09T12:05:00.000-07:00

Ta da! I have successfully created my three column blog. You can all congratulate me. I know it is still ugly but I only have so much time each day! Someone tell me what to do next! All my thanks to Selissa who loves to tell me how boring my blog is!

Check out Missouri Star Quilt Company!

2009-03-03T13:37:00.001-08:00

Cool Giveaway from the most beautiful quilt store in the world. Missouri Star Quilt Company is having a giveaway!

I've been tagged!

2009-03-03T12:56:00.000-08:00

This is our little joyful Emilie in August of 2004! I look at her and wish I wasn't done having babies! How can one resist those fat little arms and legs. The bright happy eyes that light up with love just to see my face. The sweet moments holding a little one against my chest and feeling their warm breath against my skin. The grip of a little hand around my finger and the joy of baby laughter and even the tears. They need Mommy so much. How fast the time goes! Maybe we should adopt....

This is how it works. Go to your pictures. Pick the 6th file and the 6th picture in that file. Post it on your blog and write about it!
I tag Natalie, Amber, Dee, Lara and Kelly

Life is...Interesting

2009-02-25T17:42:00.000-08:00

Well,
I didn't get my kitchen by Saturday. Why, you ask?
My wonderful husband had had enough remodeling and decided to enjoy some well deserved playtime...on a dirt bike.
His bruised ribs have been reminding him daily that he isn't 15 anymore.

Now that he is feeling like getting back to the remodel he is going to have a lot of time to do it. Today he was informed that he has been terminated at work!!!!!

Don't worry about us, the Lord will provide. However, prayers would be greatly appreciated as Bryan searches for work.
I do feel somewhat guilty as I have been praying for a way that Bryan could be around more often. I don't know why I always get what I want. I think I will start praying that he finds a work at home job with a very large salary attached. It can't hurt, can it?
Sasha
PS In other news....Jacob had surgery on a growth plate on his right leg on the 17th of this month. The operation slows the growth of his right leg to allow his left leg to catch up. We are so excited for him! The surgery went well and he is now working on limping around to gain full strength in his leg so that he can run his lawn mowing business again this spring and summer and enjoy some scout camping trips.

Mission: Remodel

2009-02-04T17:10:00.000-08:00

Proof that I helped
Thanksgiving vacation we spent doing the living room and laundry room

The kitchen will be DONE on Saturday night!! I am moving in even if it is midnight!

We've been busy!

2008-12-19T03:23:00.001-08:00

Since my last post we have been in a constant state of remodel. I would show you pics but I lost the camera!! Bad! Christmas is coming!
We have a living room now! It is beautiful and last night I put some actual art on the walls. It has been a long time since we had anything on our walls. I was busy painting the new laundry room yesterday. It will have one apple red wall. Fun!
I am quite proud of myself as I have done the majority of the drywall mudding, taping, sanding, and painting all on my own. Bryan spent the week of Thanksgiving working hard on the electrical, plumbing for the laundry, and major wall structure of the living room, we all worked together to put in our new flooring. Today and tomorrow we hope to move the washer and dryer to their new location and move all of the food storage out of what will be our dining room and into the PANTRY!
We hope to have our kitchen island which is concrete, polished and ready for Christmas. Yay!!
I am so excited to have a real house!! Come over for a visit!

Enlightened statesmen will not always be at the helm

2008-11-05T10:49:00.000-08:00

Our Founding Fathers and the Prophets said it much better than I can.

"Enlightened statesmen will not always be at the helm." James Madison, Federalist No. 10, November 23, 1787

"Guard against the impostures of pretended patriotism." George Washington, Farewell Address, September 19, 1796

"But a Constitution of Government once changed from Freedom, can never be restored. Liberty, once lost, is lost forever." John Adams, letter to Abigail Adams, July 17, 1775

"Remember democracy never lasts long. It soon wastes, exhausts, and murders itself. There never was a democracy yet that did not commit suicide." John Adams, letter to John Taylor, April 15, 1814

"We have no government armed with power capable of contending with human passions unbridled by morality and religion. Avarice, ambition, revenge, or gallantry, would break the strongest cords of our Constitution as a whale goes through a net. Our Constitution was made only for a moral and religious people. It is wholly inadequate to the government of any other." John Adams, Address to the Military, October 11, 1798

"That government is best which governs the least, so taught the courageous founders of this nation. This simple declaration is diametrically opposed to the all too common philosophy that the government should protect and support one from the cradle to the grave. The policy of the Founding Fathers has made our people and our nation strong. The opposite leads inevitably to moral decay."
Ezra Taft Benson (1899 - 1994)
Source: at BYU, February 28,1962

"In the 1940s while serving as the executive officer of the National Council of Farmer Cooperatives in Washington, D.C., I saw in a Hilton Hotel a placard depicting Uncle Sam, representing America, on his knees in humility and prayer. Beneath the placard was the inscription, "Not beaten there by the hammer and sickle, but freely, responsibly, confidently. . . . We need fear nothing or no one save God." That picture has stayed in my memory ever since; America on her knees in recognition that all our blessings come from God! America on her knees out of a desire to serve the God of this land by keeping his commandments! America on her knees, not driven there in capitulation to some despotic government, but on her knees freely, willingly, gratefully! This is the sovereign remedy to all of our problems and the preservation of our liberties."
Ezra Taft Benson (1899 - 1994)
Source: Ensign, November 1976,

Ether 2:9 "And now we can behold the decrees of God concerning this land of promise; and whatsoever nation shall possess it shall serve God, or they shall be swept off when the fullness of his wrath shall come upon them. And the fullness of his wrath cometh upon them when they are ripened in iniquity. For behold, this is a land which is choice above all other lands; wherefore he that doth possess it shall serve God or shall be swept off; for it is the everlasting decree of God...Behold this is a choice land and whatsoever nation shall possess it shall be free from bondage, and captivity, and from all other nations under heaven, if they will but serve the God of the land , who is Jesus Christ...

Family Pictures

2008-10-13T07:02:00.000-07:00

We recently went to Far West for a family photo shoot. Our good friend, Deanna Gordon took the pictures. I am sure that she will now reprimand me again for not having a link to her blog. I must say that I have forgotten how to do that. Someday when I have more time I will figure it out.
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A Temple in Kansas City!

2008-10-13T06:45:00.000-07:00

We are so excited at our house we are jumping for joy! Well, I am. Bryan doesn't jump very often, he is more the smiling serenely with deep satisfaction type. We were told yesterday at our Stake Conference that our temple would be similar to the Idaho Falls Temple. It will be in North Kansas City, close to Liberty and near I-435 and Shoal Creek Blvd.
My feelings of gratitude to my Heavenly Father for this amazing blessing are hard to express. I feel as though he has looked down on our little family and has seen our struggles and simply wants to bring us joy and pour out blessings upon our heads. I can imagine Him rejoicing in our rejoicing. Congratulations to all the families who will be within our new temple district! Rejoice!

Fall is here...

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and with it comes school, rain, and some softened sunshine. September so far has been very rainy. It usually is, but it seems to be overdoing it a little. We spent two hours on Thursday out in the lovely rain cleaning up the yard that had been neglected through the summer days too hot to work outdoors. It was refreshing and invigorating. I was reminded why I love September. The rain in mostly gentle and warm and the sun still shines brightly. I know everything is getting ready to fade and die or at least sleep but fall is when I feel the most alive.

The COUNTDOWN

2008-08-05T14:10:00.000-07:00

The weeks of August were meant to be a peaceful, slow moving time. A time of happy reflection on the summer days and anticipation for the last few wonderful activities of the season; county fairs, weekends camping, swimming and eating popsicles. We have proof that the month of August is meant for doing basically nothing in the fact that there are no national holidays this month and the happier fact that Congress takes a vacation from messing up our lives.
However, in the overworked minds of many a home schooling mother there is no respite. August is the month of final reflections on the previous school year and the hurried gathering of curriculum for the new year that will fast be upon us.
In recent days you could find me trying to re-read A Thomas Jefferson Education (a book I strongly recommend to all parents) in preparation for our first attempt to fully follow the educational philosophy espoused by the author. Trying is the operative word. With nine children in the house and a job hunting sister-in-law, I have gotten very little peace. I have decided,as I have about this time every year, that I need a vacation.
So here's to all you other mothers out there frantically gathering, scouring for books on auction sites, tidying the school room and library shelves. And to those of you who aren't sure if you have the energy and patience to get through another year, Remember, just read to them.
I had a mother who read to me
Sagas of pirates who scoured the sea.
Cutlasses clenched in their yellow teeth;
"Blackbirds" stowed in the hold beneath.
I had a Mother who read me plays
Of ancient and gallant and golden days;
Stories of Marmion and Ivanhoe,
Which every boy has a right to know.
I had a Mother who read me tales
Of Gelert the hound of the hills of Wales,
True to his trust till his tragic death,
Faithfulness lent with his final breath.
I had a Mother who read me the things
That wholesome life to the boy heart brings-
Stories that stir with an upward touch.
Oh, that each mother of boys were such!
You may have tangible wealth untold;
Caskets of jewels and coffers of gold.
Richer than I you can never be --
I had a Mother who read to me.-Strickland Gillilan

The Missouri Tribulation

2008-07-21T05:31:00.000-07:00

Missouri Tribulation- n. a phenomenon unique to the State of Missouri often associated with the desire to move to said state or the actual arrival in said state. This tribulation includes such occurrences as; sickness (chronic and otherwise), broken bones, washers and dryers self destructing, main water lines rupturing etc.; adverse happenings follow quickly upon one another, usually within a matter of days. This phenomenon is sometimes referred to as The Refiner’s Fire.
While the foregoing examples of adversity may seem somewhat mild, an account of more serious events could be given if this author were not afraid to tempt fate. The Missouri Tribulation has been well documented in the lives of many stalwarts who have continued to remain in the State of Missouri and or dream of coming no matter the obstacles.
(A word of caution to those living within the State of Missouri in a time of relative peace; If you offer your home to a fellow sojourner, who wishes to reside in this blessed place, you will be called upon to suffer the Missouri Tribulation with said sojourner.)
Often associated with the Tribulation is another phenomenon marked by increased fierce reliance upon the Lord and his promises. Thereby softening the detremental effects upon the sufferers. Often those experiencing the Tribulation can be found laughing into any gathering storm while tightly gripping their scriptures and their fellow sufferers, much akin to those who choose to sacrifice life and limb by embarking on a very tall, very fast thrill ride with a dubious name such as Cyclone, Twister, or Corkscrew.
To all my fellow sojourners, God be with you. To all of you who have not had the experience, a life is not truly lived until one has ridden the Tribulation and lived to tell about it. Come on out for a visit!

Jake's Favorite Pastime

2008-07-15T06:56:00.001-07:00

Jacob has been working on his Fishing Merit Badge. He has been fishing daily in the neighbors pond. This is his first catch. He brought it home and actually ate it. The smoke detector did go off during the cooking phase of the project. Jake says it was delicious. It was buttered, battered, and fried. His next goal is to catch a catfish. I am trying to suppress my animal rights activist tendencies in order to support my son in this endeavor.

It's HOT

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We're still here, just melting in the July heat! More pics coming soon!

One of Bryan's part time jobs

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Bryan and I started putting down the tile around 8 o'clock last night. We finished at 10:30. I am not sure that running a tile saw on the front porch in a thunderstorm is a very good idea, but Bry looked confident.

Emilie, the Fairy Princess

2008-06-25T05:41:00.001-07:00

I came up the stairs the other day to inquire as to why no one had done thier chores and found this lovely creature standing there. I guess she hoped to magically make her chores disappear.

We needed to remove the debris caused by the Mom-induced tornado in the kitchen. Unfortunately, the house, which is 84 feet long, has no back door. (Another reason to remodel) So we threw the cupboards piece by piece out the bathroom window! The fairy princess changed her outfit to help.

A School Day

2008-06-24T05:35:00.000-07:00

These are not pics of a typical homeschooling day. Usually we do not involve desks in the process though at last count we had four desks, one large kitchen island, and a dining room table.

Usually our days are more like this:

Some Moments You Missed

2008-06-24T05:22:00.001-07:00

This was Gideon's favorite outfit last winter. He loved his robe, which originally belonged to his Daddy a long, long, long time ago.

Emilie, all decked out as a princess on her chariot, for her birthday party.

Back to Work

2008-06-23T05:07:00.000-07:00

The beginning of another week finds me up at 6am to post. I am distracted by a very interesting article at www.ancientamerica.org . When I look at the clock it is nearly seven. My time is up! Kids are awaking. I hurry to make a job chart list. We are going to stay on top of things this week! My solemn vow.
We have a garden to weed and water. Disaster zones formerly known as bedrooms, and no bread to make toast with. Then of course there is the dishes and the laundry, the mopping and the bathrooms. On top of all that we are preparing for the upcoming arrival of my wonderful sister-in-law Rhonda and her two little ones. They will be here next Monday night to live with us!! It is a good thing I have seven slaves...oops I mean children. Sweet obedient hardworking children!
And Jolie makes the best bread. Here is a sample for you. Sorry, I can't post the smell.

Man is that he might go golfing?

2008-06-20T06:47:00.000-07:00

For Father's day this year we finally got Bryan a set of golf clubs. We call it his "man is that he might have joy" gift. Bryan works too hard. We gave him the clubs on Friday night before Father's day as it would have been very cruel to wait til the Sabbath for a gift like that. He finally broke them out on Saturday evening after fixing the air conditioning in the house all while watching all the kids so that I could go to the temple to see some friends sealed to their adopted son. See what I mean! He works hard. I love him. Of course hitting golf balls requires finding golf balls. Time to go to a real golf course!

It was not a tornado

2008-06-18T20:11:00.000-07:00

We are having a rather mild week, weatherwise. I decided to stir things up by attacking the kitchen. I singlehandedly created a 14 foot wide pile of debris with nothing but a hammer, a crow bar, and a power drill. Aah! The joys of home improvement!

We moved!

2008-06-18T05:53:00.000-07:00

Of course it was a while ago. October 22nd to be exact. We've been remodeling the new house, fixing outbuildings, learning to care for chickens, rabbits, and a dog named Kairos (he showed up at the opportune time). The house is huge and will be amazing someday. Right now it isn't much to look at, but the kids are so happy in the country!

Check out my new blog

2008-06-17T07:44:00.000-07:00

I just started it today. Kairos a place to place all my absentminded ponderings upon the scriptures and their application in my life.
www.fullness-of-times.blogspot.com

Hello World!

2008-06-17T05:25:00.000-07:00

I have no good excuse for not blogging since last August. So I will just begin again and not promise any improvement in the timeline deficiencies of my blogging. You get what you get and don't throw a fit!
Most of you have already given up on me anyway.
Here are my little gooneybirds. This was taken last fall for our school pictures.

2007-08-30T06:06:00.000-07:00

Here I am again! Finally!
Bryan and I went to Education Week at BYU last week! Amazing! Awesome! Everyone should go! We are going to go again next year. I met Alonzo Gaskill, who I have been corresponding with. He is the author of The Lost Language of Symbolism. All the presenters we heard from where storehouses of knowledge. I think that is what heaven will be like! My goal now is to get knowledge enough to teach at Ed Week! Wouldn't that be wonderful!

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My new front door. We are planning to change the accent colors of the house. The front door will be a deep chocolate brown.

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Working on some curb appeal with my mother in law who has a green thumb!

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Jacob at the Nauvoo Temple May 22 2007

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The house on 10 acres that we will be getting soon!!

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The kitchen I came home to! Bryan worked through rain, flood, and seven children to create this kitchen for me. He is very close to perfect!

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My sister Keziah who took care of me in Utah. What a fun time! She did not help with my no sugar diet! I got to go to BYU. the Spirit there is so awesome I forgot to take a picture!

Well Hello again finally

2007-07-13T08:24:00.000-07:00

I won't pretend that I will post any more often than I have been. I don't know how to find the time for this. I am going to get my life more scheduled to try though.
OK UPDATE
The week of the 7th of May I was in Ut. I went to see a doctor there who I hoped could help me get better. I am on a no sugar diet. Amazingly I have been doing pretty well at not giving in to cravings. I have been feeling better!
May 17 Jacob turned 12 years old. His Grove Grandparents were able to visit for a week. Jacob was ordained a deacon in the Aaronic Priesthood on the 20th. On the 22nd of May we went to Nauvoo so that Jacob could do baptisms in the temple. What an awesome experience. He was baptised for some of his Grove ancestors including Jacob Grove his 5th great grandfather. Grove Grandparents, Grandma Aitchison, Keenan and Mable Blanchard were able to share the day with him.
Sometime in May the bank called Bryan and asked if he would be interested in another remodel! We were pretty excited. It is a huge house on 10 acres with a lot of outbuildings and amazing potential. We plan to close by Aug 1st.
So we have been speeding up the remodel of our current home. Three weeks ago however I fell from the ladder that was allowing me to texture the walls of the stairwell and seriously hurt myself. I am just getting able to bend over and lift things heavier than my laptop.
Yes, I should have been blogging while I was stuck on the couch but then it would have been all depressing.
So I hope this post makes those of you who have been faithfully checking back happy!

2007-04-27T09:34:00.000-07:00

Here is the reason for name mothergooneybird.
It is from a camp song of the same name.
" Mother GooneyBird! Mother Gooneybird!
Seven chicks has Mother Gooneybird!
And they can't walk, and they can't talk,
all they do is go like this:
The singers then wiggle their body parts in this order
while singing this chorus after calling out each new movement
Right leg, left leg, right arm, left arm,
Nod your head, turn around, stick out your tongue,
When you are doing all the motions you call them out in order
and sing the song one more time
and fall on the ground!
It is quite hilarious and makes everyone breathlessly happy.

House Work

2007-04-27T09:19:00.000-07:00

Today we are busy turning the school room into the new work shop. We are getting a small load of drywall today. Part for the kitchen which is getting a new pantry. And the rest for Jacob's room. The plaster is falling down in there and so we are covering it up. I have been stripping wall paper (windshield wiper fluid is amazing) and getting ready to paint the other bedrooms. Also repairing plaster in the stairwell and hall. I am doing all I can so that Bryan can focus on the hard parts.
Bryan in busy busy with work. He could use some prayers so please send yours!

2007-04-27T08:49:00.000-07:00

Hello World!
This is what the Grove family in Missouri has been working on lately.
1. Cleaning the house ( an ever-present never ending duty)
2. Fixing the house ( an ever-present never ending choice)
3. School work ( an ever-present never ending excitement filled somewhat stressful adventure)
4. Potty training Emilie (it's not working)
5. Trying to smile more and use kinder words. (an ever-present desire if not an accomplishment)

The Grove Family Blog

2007-04-25T14:34:00.000-07:00

Wow! Here we are. I am excited. I always wanted a blog of my own. Even if no one ever reads it. this will be fun!!